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 Philanthropy As You Go...


    

Philanthropy  to me is the act of investing in the common good beyond our personal needs.  There are so many ways we can and do invest in ourselves, businesses, and our communities every day.  As a business owner I believe I have a unique opportunity and responsibility as a role model in the community.  It is with this in mind that I have integrated philanthropy in the foundation of my business.  At What A Relief! we know the importance of gratitude and look for ways  to make the world a better place with our money, time, and high quality services.  This is how we say thank you! 

This page lists a few of the ways we have been and continue to be active in the community.  Never underestimate the power of a smile...




  WINTER, SPRING and FALL 2007

This is the year I learned the value, again, of friendship; unconditional, loving,committed friendship. In spring my dear friend, Richie Goldstein, quickly followed by another dear friend, Stanley Kingston, shared their deaths with me. It taught me more than I am yet ready to articulate herein, but in the light of philanthropy it deserves mention. The opportunity to give of myself and share the intimacy of this sacred passage was truly profound and I'm sure it will have a positive impact for years to come. I missed money generating work, both actually and opportunities to pursue  more money generating work. I missed social engagements, parties, and walks with friends. I hardly knew myself emotionally when I finally came to terms with the fact that their bodies had perished, but I am a better person. I believe it is the pursuit of a deeper humanity that brings fulfillment and joy. I highly recommend stopping for a friend, or even a stranger in need. That stranger may be your best friend one day...

Rest in peace Richie and Stanley.


  SUMMER 2006

In the light of realizing the political is the personal, I decided it was time to educate myself in earnest and am grateful to have had the opportunity to volunteer my time for a very gifted person, Sonia Chang-Diaz in the Massachusetts Senate race.  She continues to be a tremendous inspiration for me and I am sure that wherever she turns up in the world she will leave it a little better than how she found it.

Following is a letter to the editor of the Jamaica Plain Gazette that was published on 20 October, 2006 that summarizes my experience.

Lessons learned from the Senate Race, Recount

We are taught in school that the democracy of the US is the best in the world. It is a beaming example of freedom because we elect our leaders and choose our policies by voting. It seems good enough in theory, but in practice I haven’t been convinced that our votes are even counted. These last two presidential elections are stark examples of many relevant questions we need to be asking about our myth of freedom. I have been troubled by my own hardening  cynicism and searching for ways to participate and educate myself beyond the commiserating that’s plentiful these days.

Enter Sonia Chang-Diaz. I met her at the Leland Street Community Garden and was immediately impressed by her intelligence and enjoyed her company. When she turned up in the race for state senator I was excited to help her out. I didn’t have any real knowledge about incumbent Dianne Wilkerson accept the unfortunate troubles reported in the press over the years.

What I liked about Sonia was that she seemed to be talking to me, the cynic. I chose the phone bank, and once a week I made phone calls introducing people to Sonia and her campaign, encouraging them to be a positive change in the political world and to “expect more”.

I participated in the recount and realized first-hand how many way us one could miscount the votes. During the recount I saw the candidates, their lawyers, supporters, judges, armed police, silver boxes with numbers marked on them, the election council and the phenomenal tangle of logistics involved in actually counting the ballots.

I was genuinely moved by the loyalty of Dianne’s people and in listening to their testimonies began to realize how much she has affected a positive change for the community, despite negative press she has received for her financial difficulties. I stepped back and indulged an Aquarian vision: I could see Dianne helping Sonia learn how to work the system. With the two of them working together, Dianne’s good work for the people and organizations she brought to the table and gave a voice could be built on and not lost in the transition to new leadership. I could see how much Sonia and Dianne care about many of the same things and have good hearts too.

What they don’t share is the color of their skin. It is my experience that we are given different “rule Books” in this country depending on the class and race we are born into. The gap between people is mostly create by the fact that they are following different rules, the rules that they were given at birth. I am placing my vote for rewriting all the books and doctrines and to be very clear we are representing all life forms in the first line, leaving none as afterthoughts (amendments). It sounds like a lot of work, but I don’t see solving the continuing violence as easy, either. Why not work together creating solutions that we can really believe in and be proud to pass on to our children?






  On-Going 2006


Leland Street Community Garden

The Leland Street Garden is located on Leland St. off of Wachussett Rd. near Forest Hills in Jamaica Plain, MA.  It  is nestled in a culdesac abutting the  Forest Hills Cemetary.  It hosts several theme beds, ie. the white garden, herb beds, vegetable beds, etc.  It has been running successfully for a number of years as an egalitarian collaborative, allowing everyone to come and go as they need to.  The garden is always open to visitors and all are welcome to help themselves to whatever is ripe for the picking, regardless if they have ever participated in the work days or steering committee meetings.  It's ideal for gardners who just need to get dirty, but don't have the space or committment to cultivate their own yards.  And by helping out on the steering committee, it's perfect for folks wanting to help out in the community and who don't like to get dirty!

 Workdays are alternate Saturdays beginning roughly April - November. Starting time 10AM or when you get there and the days run until 2 or so. All are welcome. Tools and gloves provided...raindate is always Sunday)

Steering Committee meets on the second Monday of the month. Please ring or 'e' for place and time.



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DJamil Graham
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WINTER 2005


V-Day Boston 2005


Building Community...One Heart at a Time


                      



This past winter  we donated our services to the V-Day Boston 2005 Campaign. The V-Day Campaign is a global movement to end violence against women and girls.  It was started by Eve Ensler in response to the outcry she received by women all over the globe to her Obie Award winning play The Vagina Monologues.  The play is a compilation of women’s stories, from tragedy to the miracle of childbirth.  She decided something must be done. Through V-Day campaigns local volunteers produce annual benefit performances of the play, and often complimentary events as well, to raise awareness and funds for anti-violence groups within their own communities. For more information, please visit www.vday.org 


Lindsey Piper and Djamil Graham met at a Stop Rape vigil held in Jamaica Plain in October 2004.  The vigil was organized as an outreach/response to the police handling of  two consecutive abductions and aggravated rapes that originated in Jamaica Plain where they both live.  They were ready to do something to end the violence against women and girls!  They agreed a collaborative group that welcomed and empowered the voice of everyone was the only way to do it.  The focus was the activism first, the play second, and they were off!  A group of  50 came together.  There were 7 teams, 3 directors, 40 actresses, and 2 organizers — What A Relief! (Djamil Graham) & Lindsey Piper.


               


The Events!


February 12 – Trivia Sextravaganza (An educational game) at Sweet Finnish Bakery 


February 15 -  VulvaPalooza (A Celebration of Women’s Music) at The Midway Cafe


February 25, 26 -  The Vagina Monologues  at The Eliot Hall (Thank you Gadgets for selling our tickets!)  Sold Out both nights!


March 6 – Vagina Fair (Pure Fun and Folly) at the Milky Way


March 29 – April 19  - RAD Self Defense Class for Women and Women Identified at Curtis Hall


 


All the events took place in Jamaica Plain. They featured Vagina Liberation Front handmade merchandise and tables offering information from Boston Area Rape Crisis Center, Fenway Community Health Center and our chosen beneficiary The Network/La Red.


The Network/La Red, a nationally recognized organization, was the first in Massachusetts to acknowledge domestic violence within the Lesbian community.  They are working to end abuse in Lesbian, Bi-Sexual Women’s and Transgender Communities.  They offer hotline, safe home, advocacy and education/outreach services.  They are a very dedicated and committed staff of four  plus volunteers. It was a pleasure to work with them.  For more information, please visit www.thenetworklared.org


The results were more than any number could possibly show.  We were welcomed back to all the venues that hosted our events, were able to navigate conflict in a dignified way, and we raised $14,000.00 too!  10% after expenses went to the V-Day spotlight ‘The Organization for Women’s Freedom in Iraq’.  Finally, we were able to donate $11,000.00 to the Network/La Red!  


Working with this group was personally reviving for me in profound ways.  I know now that when we all work together we can indeed do anything.  This far surpassed my wildest dreams. I am so grateful for everybody who shared in creating this experience.  It was the work of everybody, and everybody working together in a true spirit of collaboration and committment to ending the violence that made it so spectacular.  We can change the world...one heart at a time!   





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